Inside My Life-I Dream in STARS

There are many roads in life that can take you down unknown paths. Some may lead you in the direction you never dreamed possible, while others down the darkest paths. In my life I’ve had both, I’m human so I’d say that is pretty typical. Here is where it all started. I grew up with my father in Grand Rapids, MI with my little sister Katy. We didn’t have much growing up but we sure had a close love for each other. When I say we didn’t have much, I think that is an under statement. I use to be horribly embarrassed about my upbringing yet that is about to change because that fear is my past, I am proud where I came from. I grew up in an Apollo motor home, yes the kind on wheels. My home was often a nearby Kmart parking lot or a KOA if we needed to hook up to electricity. This all was something that we didn’t talk about much with others in fear of being taken away from my father. My father use to remove the table in our motor home & turn it into a stage for my sister and I, he was convinced that we were going to grow up to be country western singers. I was in the 6th grade when my world came crashing down. After dropping me off to school he had a heart attack. When rushed to the ER his brother operated on him and was not able to save his life. I didn’t think at this point in my life that I would be able to survive my own broken heart. Once again another path was turned around. I gave up my singing and stopped listening to country western. It took several years to get myself back on the right path. It was hard to explain how close I was with my father and kept most things quite, my sisters and I didn’t even talk about it. I now lived with my mother, older sister Stacey and my sister Katy in Washington State. My mom did her best trying to raise us, low income housing and multiple jobs was the only way. At the age of 14, instead of following my dream of STARS, I felt it was my obligation to start to work. I would walk back and forth from work every day and never complained once. There was a modeling contest held at the mall one summer. I thought if I won I could start my path, they would see my personality and I could shine. I entered and ranked in the top. From there I started doing runway shows locally and was asked to pose in showcase windows of stores as a mannequin model. It was fun yet it didn’t make enough money to allow me to stop working, it all caught up. I remember how mean kids in school would be. I would get nasty messages teasing me about modeling and girls calling me super model wannabe. My self-confidence was just coming back to be taken back down. I cried on my 25th birthday, I was old… so old and my life and my opportunities were over. I thought I should give it one more chance so I got an agent in Kirkland, WA and started in acting classes. I would drive down every weekend and never missed one. I was asked to audition for an upcoming Warner Brothers reality TV show that was coming out. I went on several auditions and made the cut. Soon after I became very sick. I was diagnosed with Crohn’s Disease and thought my life was over. I was by myself when my doctor told me and I remember walking down the stairs almost falling down because I couldn’t see though my tears. For 3 years following I tried my new life with being on and off again severely sick. I started to get claustrophobia and built up anxiety. I went back to the doctor to try to get a better understanding how I was supposed to live like this, my STARs were falling. After further testing I was undiagnosed with Crohn’s and was told I was lactose intolerant, seriously. My anxiety already formed at this point so life was different and I was left with fighting the damage it already did on me. You know what comes next, love and marriage and the baby carriage. Life, that is what happened to me. Not that this was the wrong path, it’s been a great path. So, did I stop dreaming in STARS? No way, they shine on me every night and it’s my time again yet it’s THE time, my time. I will take my life’s path and go horizontal with my dream path. It’s my time in my life to continue to dream in STARS. Want to follow my progress, I’d love the support, encouragement and love. Blaaaaaahhhhh that was my serious side on to being ME. I’m the host of Talk It Up TV which I’ll write about my experiences behind the scenes. I also started Talk It Up Productions to help others get into video. I’ve surrounded myself with a very supportive and talented team and together we all dream in STARS. I will also be bringing out my inner child in other roles that I will find. I will discover the world of self teaching and being taught. Thanks for reading this XO, Anny Havland